LHH on Being true to yourself

Ok, this week our dear Mr Chairperson went to Mt Ophir for some adventure trekking hiking or wateva. So i am here standing in to write an entry for him!!! Haha!!!

Before doing that, a poem for everybody :

清明時節雨紛紛,
路上行人欲斷魂.
試問酒家何處有,
牧童遙指杏花村.

Ok, so 清明 is around the corner again. and my father's birthday is 27th Mar, so in order to avoid the crowd on qingming, my family usually went to 掃墓 on the weekend of my father's brithday instead of the qingming weekend. Yup, so yesterday, Easter Sunday + My father's birthday, we went to CCK cemetery to 掃墓 and guessed what??? Saw Zoe Tay's niece again!!! Cos Zoe Tay's brother was buried at the same plot of land as my father. She's really damn bloody chio!!! 17 years old, those sporty sporty type one!!!

Enough of talking about chiobu, so now, onto Hokology part!!! As a faithful follower of Kimilogy, I've derived a new chapter from what Kim-the-philosopher preached and decided to share it with everyone!!!! I'll name it Hokology!!!

Throughout the years, i've realised that a lot of guys tend to create a nice image of themselves in order to impress or jio a girl!!! To me, it's very wrong very wrong. Cos if the girl is attracted by the image you try to create, it's just an illusiion. The one that she truly loves is not the real you, just the image you trying very hard to pretend, to portray as. So knowing that the girl besides you doesn't really like the real you, and she only like the fake you, what joy and pleasure will you get from such a relationship??? It will also be very tough for you to keep living a life that is not the original you so as to please the one you like.

Therefore, I'm urging all the guys just be true to yourself!!! Be yourself. There is no need for you to hide anything from anyone. Just behave normally and be your real self in front of anybody, I believe there will be someone somewhere in this world you will meet one day who will be attracted by your total package, the real you. No point to try hard and please a girl.

Now to the girls. A lot of girls say that they like nice guy!!! They want guys to be 溫柔體貼, loving, show genuine care and concern to them, they like the feeling of being loved and so on so on.... Let me review the cruelty of life to you!!! By a survey done on 45287 people, results shown that 88.88% of the guys are not 溫柔體貼 and bla bla. Even if they appeared nice to you, it's just an illusion. As mentioned earlier, a lot of guys just creating an image to impress girls. Since being nice is not their real self, sooner or later their true side will be revealed and you wont be able to accept it.

Here, urging all the girls when looking for a bf, please look at the total package instead of seeking the feeling of being loved. It can be the 1st thing you get attracted to a guy, but then as the relationship grow, try to look for others things of him that you like as well. It's a very dangerous thing to solely like the feeling of being loved!!! Even if the guy is really a very nice guy, nice to everybody and love you a lot!!! Because if being loved is the only thing that you look for, then a damn lihai actor(con-man) happened to appear could be able to cheat you very easily!!!!

Ok, enough of Hokology now, sound quite bullshit. Haha, but now i realised that it's quite fun to post your own set of idea, no wonder OSK had been doing so. Final word for this post, be true to yourself, talk your own way, think your own ways and walk your own way!!! Dun be influenced by people and so on as long as you think what you do is correct!!!

Just a preview for what'll be coming up in the book of Hokology :

LHH on Power
LHH on Religion
LHH on Friendship
LHH on Family Values
LHH on Metaphysics
LHH on Education
LHH on Soccer

Ok enough, when i feel like preaching again, i'll do it in the above order 1 by 1.

Song for Today : My Way by Frank Sinatra or The Way I Am by Eminem

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